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Let's face it... first dates are never easy. They're, however, easier to come by nowadays of internet dating, social media and "hook-ups." With 55 million people striking the top two dating sites each month, it's no wonder a first date feels a lot more like a dating speed round in which you have only a couple of minutes to hook him or lose him. Most men will admit they form a viewpoint within a short time (sometimes less) about whether or not they are interested in a lady or not. Unfair? I hate to tell you this, but women are no different. On a subliminal level we're already measuring the new guy across from us at a table from the last losers we have been out with. Some tiny thing he states or does may remind you of your Uncle Ricky who drives you up the wall. He might have poor eye contact and plays with his napkin. Pretty minor flaws, however in this fast-paced digital world where a new date is only a profile away, people are discarding first date candidates with remarkable ease.

So... do you know the main reasons men pulled the plug for only the first date? Here are the top 5 "I'm outta here" responses.

1. She was too wanting to please me. I would like a girl with her own opinion and one that gives me a little run in my money... you realize... feisty inside a nice way. Saying confidence and never that this date is really a make-or-break for her happiness. Give us a challenge... make us wonder if we measured up! Without being all Diva, of course.

2. Leave work at the office! This is a date, not really a board meeting. Seriously, so many women think they have to impress us using their title, achievements, trophies and accolades. Sure, we want to get an concept of who you are, but a date should be romantic and fun. I swear one girl found the first date using the blueprints from the building she just designed and spread them out on the table! I wondered if I was supposed to take notes! Irrrve never did get the feeling she was interested in me whatsoever. She turned the conversation to her so many times that I quit talking. I just nodded my head.

3. Seem like a girl. Being feminine is a huge turn-on to men. If you are coming to the date straight from an office meeting, point out that, unless you are wearing a skirt or dress, whereby we don't care in which you just came from... we like it! Leave the grunge search for an off-road adventure where mud is involved. Perfume (in small doses) still stirs a guy's insides. Soft hairstyles, soft makeup or none. Nails that stand out of your shoulder pads, collars for dogs, black fingernail polish and lipstick... uhhhhhh... no thanks. We can get that in the kid with the piercings at the sandwich shop. And speaking of piercings... if you're in danger when you get too close to a magnet, you may be not someone an excellent guy wants to date.

4. I'd rather not date a woman who doesn't know how to relax and go with the flow. A date is to get out and do something that takes the mind off work. If your girl is actually picky about her food, or sends it back for many dumb reason, this is a deal-breaker. All we have seen is a duration of trying to please this Princess. If the waitress constitutes a mistake... what exactly? If I tell a dumb joke, it may just mean I'm nervous and trying too hard to impress you. Go with it, laugh, and help me make the evening fun. FYI... a lot of women forget that we just shelled out our hard-earned money to consider you out and then try to have a good time. It's rude to ruin the night by being bored, argumentative or making downer statements about the place we chose to take you. Good manners are always welcome.

5. Surprise us! Seriously, the women men tend to ask out for any second date said or did something during the date that make us blink... in a good way. She was engaging, had cool suggestions for fun stuff to do, had passion for life and showed kindness for others (believe it or not, men rank "kindness" his or her number one attractive quality inside a woman). I'd a great date having a girl and was walking her to her car away from restaurant. There was a fountain having a punch of pennies in the bottom. She stopped, opened her purse and took out two pennies for every of us. I smiled and said, "What's this for?" She said, "Turn your back to the fountain and toss one penny over your left shoulder when you make a wish." Used to do that. "Now, take the other penny and toss it over your right shoulder while you make a wish." Once i did that, I looked at her quizzically and said, "How are you aware which wish is the one you get granted?" She grinned and said, "The one you tossed within the "right" shoulder, obviously." It was corny, however i burst out laughing. She crinkled her nose within the cutest way, as though to say, "It was supposed to be dumb." I knew right then I wanted to see this girl again. She knew how you can have fun and never take herself too seriously. Frankly, I could not stop thinking about her.